Have you seen the new Klondike commercial where a guy is out with his girlfriend and when another woman walks by he keeps his eyes focused on his girl and doesn't turn to oogle her as she walks? Sure, it's a great commercial, but it's not real. I hate to be the one to break this to you ladies, but most men check out other women when they're with their girlfriend or wife.

But believe it or not, you can get your guy to stop this annoying problem. Here's how! 1. SAY IT - Tell him how it makes you feel when he checks out other women even when he's with you. Be honest and open about your feelings. This is always the first step in approaching a problem with your guy. Most of the time, if we know something is going to upset you,

Catch him in the act. When you see him checking out a chick, stop him right there and let him know. He can't deny that he did because you saw him with your own eyes, but when you point out what he's doing as it happens, it helps to reinforce the point that you don't feel good about him doing this

DO IT - Oogle a guy. If you're boyfriend or husband is a little hard-headed or slow and somehow doesn't get that this bothers you, you can always lead by example to help him get it. The next time you're together and you see an attractive guy, do what your boyfriend does. Most likely, he's not going to feel to good about this and it will help him understand how you feel when he does it to you! -- The Average Guy, averageguy@loveawake.com